Oral sex is sexual stimulation of the lips and tongue, usually before, during, or after intercourse. It can be practiced by people of all genders and sexual orientations.
Many women enjoy giving oral sex. Some even say it’s a turn-on for them. This article will look at some of the reasons why.
1. It’s a way to turn them on
The fact is, most women love oral. They enjoy being licked and kissed, they love feeling the clitoral hood in their mouths, and they also really like when you put your tongue inside the hole that opens up in her vulva. Putting your tongue in her vagina is the best way to give her a blended orgasm (simultaneous clitoral and G-spot orgasms).
But, as with any other sexual experience, oral sex needs to be done correctly for it to feel good. That means letting her know what she likes, asking her if she’s turned on by what you’re doing, and keeping an open line of communication during sex.
It’s important to remember that oral is a much more intimate sexual experience than intercourse, which is why some women don’t enjoy it as much with casual hookups or friends-with-benefits sex partners. For this reason, oral is usually reserved for committed sex partners. But, don’t let this stop you from exploring all the different ways that you can turn your woman on by giving her oral sex.
2. It’s a way to be intimate
Some people, especially women, find oral sex to be more intimate than intercourse. This can be because it is less tense and because it allows for direct clitoral stimulation that is all but impossible during sex with a man. However, this intimacy can also be a turn-off for some people, especially if it isn’t reciprocated.
A lot of things go into how a woman experiences sexual pleasure, and it’s important to talk to your partner about how they enjoy receiving oral sex. If they tell you that they don’t like it, don’t pressure them into doing it. Instead, ask them what else they enjoy or what else you can do to make it more pleasurable for them.
For example, you can try licking and suctioning their lips and tongue and then gently start using your mouth to explore their genital area. You can move your tongue in different ways, change the rhythm of your movements and even lick their anus (also known as rimming). But remember that it’s important to be respectful of her boundaries.
3. It’s a way to control her
Some people, both men and women, like to give oral sex for the thrill of controlling their partner. “Having their loved one’s vulva or anus in your mouth feels like a power trip,” says sex educator and Tickle Kitty founder Sadie Allison. “It’s a lot like licking ice cream from the bottom of a cone, but with more sensation.”
Having someone’s penis in your mouth is also a form of power, and some people find orgasm from performing cunnilingus. However, if this type of sex makes your girlfriend or wife feel uncomfortable or anxious, talk to them about it and try to change the dynamic.
As with any sex, it’s important to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases. While you can’t get pregnant from oral sex, it’s still possible to contract an STD if your partner doesn’t use a condom or dental dam. In addition to a thorough conversation with your partner, it’s a good idea to consider getting tested and vaccinated for HPV, hepatitis A, and hepatitis B. These preventative measures can help keep you both healthy and happy.
4. It’s a way to be intimate with her
There’s a lot of intimacy involved in oral. In addition to the physical sensations, there’s a feeling of power and vulnerability on both sides. This is something that turns many women on, especially if they feel that they have the power to make or break the experience for their partner.
Some men also find that oral is a great way to bond with their partners. They like that it requires focus and attention, and they enjoy the fact that the woman they’re giving head to is totally into them. And if they can make their partner happy, that’s even better.
But, don’t think that all women are into oral sex. Some of them might be into it, but they’re not always in the mood for it. This is why it’s important to listen to your partner and see what turns them on. If you want to make it hotter for them, try changing things up a bit. Spreading her wider or licking in different places can make it more interesting for them. And of course, it’s also good to have fun and be playful with each other.
5. It’s a way to be intimate with you
Whether it’s foreplay or a primary sexual act, oral sex can be deeply pleasurable for women. They enjoy feeling their partner’s erection with their tongue and lips, and saliva is a natural lubricant that prevents genital pain. They also like the sensation of touching their partner’s soft, sensitive skin with their mouth.
Intimacy is important to women, and oral sex can be a way to get closer to their partners. This intimacy can be a great way to create sexual pleasure, and many women find it easier to orgasm during oral play than with penetrative sex.
A woman might not always want to give oral, though. She might feel that it’s too intimate for a casual hookup or for a long-term relationship. She may also feel that her cultural or religious beliefs prohibit oral sex. If that’s the case, try talking to her about it and find out what she does and doesn’t like in bed. Then, you can take steps to make it more pleasurable for her. This will help build trust in your relationship and improve your sexual experiences together.
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