Masturbation is a personal thing that many people prefer to keep quiet about. Especially when it comes to your significant other.
But do women like to watch men masturbate? We’ve talked to real women and sex experts to find out. Here’s what we learned: 1. It’s a form of communication.
1. It’s a form of communication
Masturbation is a very personal act and can vary greatly from person to person. Men and women both have very specific libidos that can be affected by hormonal changes and the phases of their menstrual cycles. Masturbation is often a way for people to relieve stress, boredom or anxiety. It can also be a way to explore different sensations and feelings.
Many sex therapists believe that masturbation is a healthy and normal part of intimacy. They encourage couples to talk openly about their sex, sexual and masturbation habits. They recommend that couples agree on a private setting for masturbation and to practice safe sex together, including how to properly care for each other’s bodies.
Having a strong and healthy relationship is the most important aspect of a good masturbation routine. If you or your partner are struggling with excessive masturbation, it is important to seek help and support. A therapist can help you determine the root cause of your problem and provide strategies to reduce and even stop masturbating altogether.
Some men feel hesitant to discuss their masturbation with their partner, despite the fact that it’s an entirely normal and healthy part of their intimacy. The reason is that they may have been raised to think of masturbation as something shameful or immoral, and as a result have kept it a secret.
2. It’s a form of foreplay
Masturbating in front of your significant other is a great way to build tension and excitement for the bedroom. This is especially true if you and your partner are new to each other or haven’t explored your sexual pleasures together.
Many men and women continue to masturbate even when they are in a relationship or married, with some research suggesting that couples who masturbate together have happier marriages. In addition to being a form of foreplay, masturbation can also be a way to build intimacy and trust in a relationship.
It’s also a good way to become familiar with your own body and sexual pleasures. Most people don’t know what areas of the genitals feel good to stroke or rub, so masturbation can help you learn to explore your erogenous zones.
And, if you’re the type to fetishize things like the tip of your penis or your inner thighs, watching you touch yourself can be super arousing for some people. Just make sure you and your girlfriend or wife have set ground rules about what you can touch and when.
Some people who masturbate frequently can develop compulsive behavior or even a “masturbation addiction.” If you find that you’re missing work or canceling plans, have difficulty concentrating on other activities, experience frequent guilt or shame, or lose interest in your partner as a result of excessive masturbation, talk to your doctor or counselor. There are a number of support groups for people who struggle with masturbation problems, and finding others who share your struggles can be both reassuring and validating.
3. It’s a serious visual turn-on
Despite the stigma against it, masturbation is pretty common. It’s a healthy (and free) way to experience sexual pleasure, and men are more likely to engage in it than women. One study found that 80% of men have masturbated in their lifetime. And what’s more, many women like to watch their partners masturbate. It’s an intimate act and it’s a sexy turn-on for both parties.
It’s a great form of foreplay before coital sex, and it also helps to break down barriers between you and your partner. It can lead to a more open conversation about your sexual fantasies, and it can also be an opportunity for role play. If you’re a more shy couple, it may be easier to start with just watching him masturbate, then gradually move on to some fantasy play.
Often, when a guy masturbates, he feels that some part of himself is missing. Whether that’s the fact that he isn’t getting enough physical pleasure from his relationship or the fact that he is lonely, it can make him feel unfulfilled. And when you’re watching him masturbate, it can be a sexy turn-on that affirms that he’s not alone. It can also help to ease his feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. It can remind him that he is a sexy, desirable man who has desires of his own.
4. It’s a form of intimacy
In some cases, the reason men love to watch women masturbate goes beyond sex. Women’s bodies are a source of pleasure and a form of connection for men, so when they see you masturbate, it’s like getting a glimpse into your soul.
This doesn’t mean you should go into your partner’s room and start masturbating in front of them, but if she wants to sit in your lap while you’re masturbating, that’s fine. If you’re comfortable with it, it’s an amazing way to show your woman how much you love her in a very intimate and sensual way.
As for a man’s reasons for masturbating, they’re as complicated as our bodies are. Oftentimes, it’s just something guys do because they’re wired to touch themselves. But it can also be a coping mechanism for a number of different emotions, including boredom, loneliness, or frustration. Masturbating is a way for them to soothe themselves and feel better about themselves as a person.
There are a lot of myths about why men masturbate, but sex expert Coleen Singer says that most of the time, it’s because they’re not sexually satisfied with their partners. They might think they’re not attractive enough, not sexy, or don’t have high sex drives. Plus, masturbation is an excellent way to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscle – that’s the one that controls ejaculation – and prepare for sex.
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